Lifestyles of the poor and nameless
Tuesday, April 26, 2005 at 5:41 PM
Rude dude
But does the commonplace nature of cell phones give people the right to just cut you off when you're in the middle of a conversation? (especially when they're interrupting your daytime minutes?!)
The train was on the platform waiting to leave. I had about 6 minutes before we left the station. I was on my phone talking to my dad. I walked onto the train, still speaking to him. Then I decided "no need to sit inside yakking away for all to hear, when I can stand on the platform as I wait for the train to leave". A man saw me walk on and walk off the train. He saw that I was on the phone. He then proceeded to interrupt my conversation to ask me why I got off the train. But of course, I couldn't really understand what he was saying, so I asked him to repeat it a couple times. When I finally figured out what he was saying, I told him "I got off the train because I'm talking on my cell phone." He said "oh" and walked away.
Ugh. Somehow that just seems so rude to me. This is not the first time it's happened. I'll be minding my own business, engaged in conversation, and someone will interrupt me to ask some trivial thing. If it's an emergency, then I will interrupt someone, but with all these people all over the place, why would I pick the one who is obviously busy?
The other pet peeve of mine....even more egregious than the cell-phone-interrupter, is the person who stands right next to you and starts smoking. How rude can you be? I remember one time I was using a pay phone and a guy started using the pay phone right next to mine. Next thing I know, he lights a cigarette and starts puffing away. I mean, really. It's bad enough that the unwritten smoker's handbook mandates smoking in doorways, such that non-smokers must pass through clouds of smoke to get to their desired locations, but must they be so insensitive as to bring the smoke right to me, forcing me to move?!
For the record, I started coughing away while I was at that payphone with the smoker and he ignored me. I then asked him to put it out and he pretended he couldn't hear me. Rude! I think that would have been a good Seinfeld episode. Maybe I will walk around with a pocket fan and aim it at the smokers when they stand near me.
Dee's two cents:
lol
I thought the pocket fan was a good plan. You should really do that.
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's two cents:
I'm afraid that I have been a rude dude in the past. I was walking down Wall St. in Manhattan when I saw Spike Lee talking on his cell phone. I had the nerve to interrupt him just to tell him that I was a fan. I guess I'm lucky that he didn't chastise me for my rudeness. I would have deserved it, I guess.
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Queen Bee's two cents:
I guess one of the unfortunate parts of being a celebrity is that people are always going to come up to you and talk to you; often they will interrupt you from whatever you're doing....but I guess that's something that's part of a celebrity's occupational hazard.
I, on the other hand, am nowhere near celbrity status....and am not trying to get there either. Therefore, I'd rather be unknown and uniterrupted.
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Ananse's Web's two cents:
I think the fan is a pretty good idea myself
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Jay V Mail!'s two cents:
you should have just put the cigarette out for him when he ignored you.
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Queen Bee's two cents:
Jay is right. The thought crossed my mind, but since he was bigger than I (and looked like he could beat me up), I just enured it.
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